YOUR RESPECT IN YOUR OWN HANDS

The most valuable thing which is also most vulnerable thing, and it would be wrong to call it a material thing but an asset is Self Respect.To earn respect is difficult, but to maintain that respect is like tracing the path of Fish in water.
The most easy way to loose respect is to speak very frequently without giving second thought.And the easiest way to earn respect is to remain calm and composed and speak only when required.You might think this is wrong in today's context.Yes, In some cases like a classroom, group discussion etc. you need to be interactive and grab the opportunity, but in personal, professional and social life people who speak less are valued the most.
We often find people around us talking like a chatter box, joking, making fun of others and we often try to resemble these people as they are considered as the COOL GUYS.Introspect yourself and find out, are you the same kind of person.
Never give another person a chance to hurt you, distress you or make you feel ashamed.
Abstain from people who give blunt remarks, sarcastic comments as those people will always make your moral down and even can spoil your mood if you are an emotional and sentimental person.

THE GOLDEN THUMB RULE IS IS BE PROMPT AND PRECISE IN YOUR WORDS AND DO NOT COPY OTHERS. (BE YOURSELF)
IF YOU ARE A LOQUACIOUS KIND OF PERSON, HAVE THE COURAGE TO FACE ANY KIND OF COMMENTS AND ALWAYS LEARN A LESSON FROM IT.