Seven Golden alphabets form a magical word - Success.Its an arduous job to define it, but cant help it, I have taken the onus of doing so.
Who wants to be successful - Everyone.
Who actually become successful - Very few.
The reason behind this is the inability to define success for themselves.
If I ask you, Yes you the reader of this post to define success for yourself, it would be a bit tough, time taking and of course a brainstorming session for you (don't worry the same is for me).
Success can be in terms of financial stability, rewards and recognition from the society or it can be too small as- Having a small family in a small town with a small car parked in a small house,working in a small company/business with small savings = Self respect and Mental Peace.
Lets leave all this philosophy and talk something of management.
Three easy steps of defining success - I.F.S
Now don't guess it as Indian Foreign Service/International Federal Society etc.
Just read below..
Individual - First and foremost important is the individuals own interest and capabilities.Now comes the difficulty of locating ones own interest, but capabilities are crystal clear.If you go with only capabilities, you will deliver to the environment but within yourself you will not be sure of it.
If you go with only interest, people with capabilities in the same area will easily surpass you.
So, what to do BOSS??????????????????????????
Look for area where you have both interest and capabilities? difficult to get.
That the dilemma, an if you have an answer to it, please feel free to comment or mail me.
Family - Individual success is not the only thing, you need to take your family along with you.I need not explain this very much as it has been well portrayed and displayed in hollywood movies, where the person moves ahead with success, leaving back their family and in-turn loosing their love, care affection respect and many more things.
Society - Even animals think of their community, whether it may be ants, deers or any other animal, we being the greatest animal on this planet should contribute something to the society in any was possible and hence disproving the below saying : -
A baby fish asked her mother: why can't we live on earth?
Mother Fish: Earth is not the place for fishes,Its made for Selfishes.
Who wants to be successful - Everyone.
Who actually become successful - Very few.
The reason behind this is the inability to define success for themselves.
If I ask you, Yes you the reader of this post to define success for yourself, it would be a bit tough, time taking and of course a brainstorming session for you (don't worry the same is for me).
Success can be in terms of financial stability, rewards and recognition from the society or it can be too small as- Having a small family in a small town with a small car parked in a small house,working in a small company/business with small savings = Self respect and Mental Peace.
Lets leave all this philosophy and talk something of management.
Three easy steps of defining success - I.F.S
Now don't guess it as Indian Foreign Service/International Federal Society etc.
Just read below..
Individual - First and foremost important is the individuals own interest and capabilities.Now comes the difficulty of locating ones own interest, but capabilities are crystal clear.If you go with only capabilities, you will deliver to the environment but within yourself you will not be sure of it.
If you go with only interest, people with capabilities in the same area will easily surpass you.
So, what to do BOSS??????????????????????????
Look for area where you have both interest and capabilities? difficult to get.
That the dilemma, an if you have an answer to it, please feel free to comment or mail me.
Family - Individual success is not the only thing, you need to take your family along with you.I need not explain this very much as it has been well portrayed and displayed in hollywood movies, where the person moves ahead with success, leaving back their family and in-turn loosing their love, care affection respect and many more things.
Society - Even animals think of their community, whether it may be ants, deers or any other animal, we being the greatest animal on this planet should contribute something to the society in any was possible and hence disproving the below saying : -
A baby fish asked her mother: why can't we live on earth?
Mother Fish: Earth is not the place for fishes,Its made for Selfishes.
I LIKE THIS WELL STRUCTURED TOPIC AND ALSO THE EXAMPLE OF FISH AND BABY.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately or fortunately we are not fishes. We are unfortunate because we lack the conviction to change the things they are. We are fortunate not to be fishes otherwise neither you would have been here to write this nor would have I been to read.
ReplyDeleteFamily of course comes first. Completely agreed. Wish everyone had the same thought.
Success is a very relative term (word). If i have a definition of success, you might have a different one. This is why different people in the world have their own definitions of success and this is why we have so many different success stories.
ReplyDeleteSome people dont even know why they themselves are going on a path to success, but they wanted to achieve something, to make that one girl happy, to see a smile on a little kids face.
Success is a culmination of a lot of things, that come from self and the environment.
In the end, have goals, and try to accomplish everyone of them, and along the path you will find success.
Now do we have thing coming up on patience, which maybe needed o be successful. :)
gud job dear
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